Richmond, Virginia Modern Jewish Wedding
Inspired by Art Deco, Fashion and Cultural Heritage
Congratulations to Sarah & Elliot, who are celebrating their one year anniversary today! I can’t believe it’s been 365 days since these two RVA cat-parents said “We Do” in front of their family and friends. A year later, I am still swooning over their gorgeous wedding and am so honored to feature their photos on today’s blog post for all to enjoy. I was told that these two lovebirds are having cake to celebrate today and I’m so happy for them! So please, raise your glasses for Sarah + Elliot on this joyous occasion + send them love in the comments below!
HOW THEY MET
Sarah and Elliot are high school sweethearts. It was said that, “Sarah laughed at Elliot's jokes on her 17th birthday at an improv show. A few weeks later, was Sarah's prom which she went to with another boy. Her neighbor, Lorin, whom she somewhat forced to go to Prom brought Elliot. They had dinner at Eggspectation and Elliot sat across from Sarah. Elliot continued his jokes all through dinner and made it a fun evening. Sarah danced at Prom, and saw Elliot looking at her throughout the night.”
At that time, Elliot had dreads and also drove a motorcycle. That was a bit concerning for Sarah’s mum (Amy) but it eventually Elliot’s personality and practicality grew on her. When Sarah expressed her desire to go out with Elliot, Lorin set up a date for the two of them. That grew into several outings which included eating freeze-dried ice cream, watching movies and a lot of swings. Finally, Elliot asked Sarah to go out with her. And then they went off to college… Sarah at a school 9 hours away and Elliot at VCU. They did the long distance thing for awhile until Sarah transferred to VCU and moved to Richmond.
Through jobs, transitions, moves and saving stray kitties (Oreo - who crossed over the Rainbow Bridge and Pistachio - a huge lover boy tabby who loves to pose for the camera) after college, Sarah and Elliot moved back to Richmond to start the life they always wanted to have together: making custom tables, painting, remodeling their home, overseas travel, going out to enjoy Richmond’s foodie scene and of course, spending time with each other and their (now) 4 feline kids.
From Sarah: “It was sweetly awkward. We went to this new footbridge they put up over the James (The Pipeline Riverwalk), because it was a beautiful day. I was getting hangry so I thought we should get some dinner. I started walking back, and looked back because Elliot wasn't next to me. He was down on one knee with the sunset behind him.”
Check out the engagement photos from the Pipeline Riverwalk + other RVA locations that we did in Fall 2017!
Art Deco, Vintage, Offbeat/Alternative, Fashion-Inspired, Jewish in the River City
The Graduate Hotel RVA was the official location for Getting Ready and the Ketubah Signing for Sarah & Elliot. With it’s modern-meets-hip & preppy vibe, the Graduate was the perfect backdrop for those pre-wedding candids that we have all come to love. The Ketubah is a Jewish prenuptial agreement. It is considered an integral part of the marriage, to be completed after sunset the night before the wedding. Two witnesses are also present during the signing of this document the Ketubah is traditionally read out loud under the Chuppah.
The Chuppah is a canopy under which a Jewish couple stands during their wedding ceremony. This one was made out of birch wood. Sarah, being the artist she is, sent a piece of linen with her wedding invitations and as a part of their RSVP, asked her guests to write prayers, well-wishes, draw a picture, to simply create artwork on the linen squares and mail it back so that she could stitch everything together. The symbolism behind this is that the couple was to be covered with the prayers of their loved ones as they joined their lives together.
Another unique addition at this wedding was the inclusion of a Memories Room across from the ceremony site. In this unique retro space, Elliot’s mom filled the old wooden built-in bookshelves, ledges and tables with a gallery of framed photos of Sarah & Elliot, their trophies, photo albums, certificates, as well as photos and momentos from family members who have passed on. Most wedding receptions feature a simple memory table, but Sarah & Elliot were lucky enough to have an entire room to fill with their most precious memories. This gave guests the opportunity to pause and reflect on the journey of life these two have been through during their last decade of love and to celebrate the new memories that will soon be created.
And finally, the Horah, a traditional Jewish wedding dance that originated from the Balkans, where the bride and groom are lifted above the crowd on chairs and their family/friends dance around them.
MY FAVORITE PART OF THE WEDDING
It’s super hard to pick just one favorite part of the wedding as there were so many integral moments that made the day special for these two beauties… so I’ll choose my top 3 that are not already mentioned:
1.) First Look with Sarah’s sister, Zina (who was so surprised upon seeing Sarah’s wedding “garment”) and her adorable niece Maddie
2.) Intimate Mother-Daughter moments between Sarah and Amy
ABOUT THE WEDDING JUMPSUIT (from Sarah’s Instagram post)
When Elliot and I set the date, I asked for people's thoughts on my design. I got "people are going to think you are a lesbian," "you only get married once-wear a dress like a lady," and "I don't think it is a good idea to make it yourself". I was nervous to do this, and procrastinated because I started changing my vision to fit others. I made a whole wedding dress, but hated every minute of it. 1 week before I said "I do!"... I decided to make a jumpsuit instead. I told only my fiance at first, because I did not want to hear people telling me not to. My now husband fit me in my muslin sample, something I thought he couldn't do before because it wouldn't be a stupid surprise. In 3 days, I made myself a wedding jumpsuit. It was not perfect. I wish I had time for pockets, a little more fabric to lengthen the torso and hips, the lining is still basted at the hem; but I made a jumpsuit for my wedding which is what my vision always was.
MAZEL TOV, Sarah & Elliot for having me document your most special and fantastic wedding weekend festivities! I feel so blessed to have been a part of your celebration. Wishing you all the best as you celebrate your first wedding anniversary today and every day! Love you both so much!
Photography: Laurentina Photography
Wedding Planner: Best Day Ever Gathering and Events
Hair & Makeup: Bombshell RVA
Rabbi/Officiant: Rabbi Bonny Grosz
Florist: Strawberry Fields Flowers & Finds
Cake/Cupcakes: Pearl’s Bake Shoppe
Donuts: Country Style Donuts
Donut Wall: Max Lopez
Bridal Jumpsuit: Created by the Bride (Sarah) herself!
Bridal Shoes: Sole Society
Ketubah Calligraphy: Morgan Swank Studio
Wording from Ketubah/Hebrew: Ketubah.com
Flower Headpiece: Fabric Flowers by M&S Schmalberg